Implicit memory

In the last few training classes I've taken we talked about implicit memory. Implicit memory (vs. explicit memory) is the unconscious memory. We all have implicit memory from the time we are born (and possibly earlier). It is the part of our memory that is formed when an event triggers strong emotions. For instance, an infant that was bitten by a dog may be terrified of dogs as a child, but not be able to explicitly remember why. It's important for parents of traumatized children to keep this in mind. Sometimes our children are reacting to their implicit memories of being unsafe (for any varieties of reasons). It is completely plausible that children do not know why they behaved a certain way or why they have an unreasonable fear of something. 

Implicit memory is tough to deal with, but his is where I think documentation can be helpful. You may be able to find triggers which can help to identify certain struggles for your little one and possibly avoid them or prepare you child for them. 

We can also use it to our advantage. As a mom who fostered infants I know that while those children will not explicitly remember their time with us, they may have implicit memory of being safe, cared for and loved. 

Here's an extremely informative article that goes into this concept on a much deeper level.